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没什么是原创的,科尔比 弗古森说到。一切创作的源泉都是混搭。从鲍伯迪伦 到 史蒂夫 乔布斯, 我们最伟大的创造来自于假借,偷窃和改头换面 Article/201403/278645

We#39;d all like to think we#39;re fabulously fascinating at all times. But it#39;s good to know the signs that you#39;re boring someone, just in case.我们都希望自己何时何地都是迷人的。但是了解你让别人感到厌烦的信号,以防万一。You Will Need你需要Self-awareness自我意识Observation观察Steps步骤STEP 1 Check out their eyes1.查看双眼Check out the other person’s eyes. Are they darting around the room, as if looking for an escape? Or, worse, are they completely unfocused, as if they#39;ve lapsed into a coma?查看一下对方的双眼。他们是否在房间里瞄来瞄去,就好像在找机会逃走?或者更糟糕,是否完全没有集中注意力,就好像他们走神陷入昏迷?Check out their feet, too; if they’re pointed away from you, they’re poised to run.查看他们的双脚;如果双脚向着远离你的方向,他们也是准备逃走。STEP 2 Be aware of their responses2.注意他们的反应Be aware of their responses. If your discourse isn’t eliciting anything more than polite nods, the occasional ;really?; or a monotone ;wow,; it’s time to change the topic -- or let the other person speak.注意他们的反应;如果对方对你的话语除了礼貌地点头外别无其他,只有偶尔问一下“真的吗?”或者语气词“哇”,是时候改变话题了——或者让对方来说话。STEP 3 Watch for topic switches3.突然转移话题Watch out for sudden topic switches. If you#39;re waxing poetic about one topic, and your listener suddenly introduces a whole new one, consider that a clear sign you#39;re boring.注意对方是否突然转移话题。如果你正在针对某个话题喋喋不休,而对方突然说出一个完全不同的话题,这说明很令人感到厌烦了。Avoid talking about your dreams. An informal study showed that most people find other people#39;s nocturnal fantasies a major snooze.不要谈论你的梦想。一项非正式的调查显示,其他人大谈特谈自己的梦想是最让人昏昏欲睡的。STEP 4 Question a lack of questions4.不问问题Don#39;t assume that someone who isn#39;t interrupting you or asking questions is spellbound. More likely, they#39;ve mentally checked out of the conversation.不要认为不打断你你不问问题的人是被你迷住了。更有可能的是他们的思想根本就不在对话中。STEP 5 Look into your heart5.审视自己的内心If someone is boring you, look into your heart. Boredom is often a two-way street.如果某人让你感到厌烦,审视一下自己的内心。厌烦通常是一条双行道。A 2009 study concluded that people who report that their lives are boring are more likely to die younger than those who find their lives interesting.2009年一项调查得出结论,认为自己的生活非常枯燥无聊的人比认为生活非常有趣的人更容易早逝。 Article/201408/318512


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